It is safest to take the unpopular side in the first instance. Transit from the unpopular is easy... but from the popular to the unpopular is so steep and rugged that it is impossible to maintain it.
Popular Take Rugged
Neither man nor woman can be worth anything until they have discovered that they are fools.
Worth Fools Neither
What I want is men who will support me when I am in the wrong.
Am Will I Am